Aside from asking them to volunteer embarrassing moments from their lives, you might like starting constructive debates. Put up for discussion a topic that people are divided on but that has no objective or overwhelmingly good answer. The most bullheaded on either side won't change, but you might see something interesting in the middle - and those open to hearing what the other side have to say will often become better people for it.
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Aside from asking them to volunteer embarrassing moments from their lives, you might like starting constructive debates. Put up for discussion a topic that people are divided on but that has no objective or overwhelmingly good answer. The most bullheaded on either side won't change, but you might see something interesting in the middle - and those open to hearing what the other side have to say will often become better people for it.